Does Growing Up Mean Sacrificing Individuality and Expression?

Outfit details (my inspiration was Ariana Grande in her 7 Rings music video):

• jacket (local boutique), necklace, earrings, and vintage Calvin Klein heels: my mom
• tie-shoulder bodysuit: Abercrombie & Fitch
• belt and bag: thrifted
• denim skirt (I wear size 4 for reference): http://us.topshop.com/en/tsus/product/clothing-70483/skirts-70504/denim-mini-skirt-7981473 (bought second-hand on Mercari, because fast fashion and saving $$$)